Have you been told you need to take a class so you have something worthwhile to say?
Are you told you are lacking in intelligence?
Do you dread going home?
Do people tell you that you act differently around your beloved?
Do you ‘dumb down’ around your partner?
Do they demand you dress up when you are together?
Have you been told ‘you are lucky to be with me’?
Are you being pushed to go back to school or change jobs?
Do they critique what you order in restaurants?
Do you feel like you need to play a role when you are with your partner?
Do you feel you are not good enough for them?
Do you feel like this is your only option?
Do they remember things about your schedule and ask about them?
Do you feel like if you grow you will outpace your partner?
Have they told you you are not living up to your potential?
Are they slow to respond to phone calls or texts?
Do they take offence or disagree with everything you say?
Do you feel they are not making much of an effort in your relationship?
Do they always steer conversations back to things they want to talk about?
Do you always feel like if you only try harder things will work out?
Do they share with others information you think is private?
Are efforts to better yourself met with disapproval or hostility?
Do you feel like there are things about yourself that are best not shared?
Do they seem jealous when you have successes?
Do they overreact to slights or jokes at their expense?
Do you feel they aren’t really listening or understanding you?
Do you not feel completely safe?
Do you feel like they would like you better if you changed?
Do you watch what you say?
Do they want you to fit into their world but don’t want to fit into yours?
Does he mansplain things to you?
Is time with you a priority?
Do they express interest in every aspect of who you are?
Do they often say that there are better ways to do what you are doing?
Is assistance only given sparingly?
Do they refuse to help your friends or family in a crisis?
Do you feel they are not sharing information with you?
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