Extra Support - Worksheet

 

  1. Would you loan money or give money?

  2. Under what circumstances would you give money to a family member to pay necessities?

  3. If you made a loan and it wasn’t repaid what lengths would you go to to get it back?

  4. Would you put your own future at risk to help (i.e. taking a loan or putting it on a card)?

  5. Would you give up on luxuries (e.g. tropical vacations) to help?

  6. Would you co-sign on a mortgage or car loan? If so for who?

  1. Would you give bail money to a family member?

  2. Would you help them catch up on child support?

  3. Are you willing to pay their fines?

  4. Would you pay for drug rehab?

  5. Will you provide aid and money to a sibling going through a divorce?

  6. Would you add a person to your cell plan that was not in your immediate family unit?

  7. Would you let a family member turn on utilities in your name?

  1. Would you lend money to your child’s girlfriend or boyfriend?

  2. If there was a teen pregnancy would you pay for the raising of the child?

  3. Would you take in a niece or nephew to prevent them from going into foster care? For how long?

  4. Is institutionalization ever okay in your view?

  5. What problematic genetic conditions run in your families?

  6. Would you take over the care of a special needs sibling when your parents can no longer do so?

  7. Would one of you give up a job to act as a caregiver?

  8. Would you be a guardian of a mentally ill or disabled family member?

  9. What do you consider a disability worthy of help (e.g. social anxiety)?

  10. Would you consider buying a house with a rental suite to house a family member at no cost?

  11. Would you let a family member live with you short term? Long term?

  12. Would you take in a person escaping domestic violence even if this may present danger to you?

  13. When your parents are old and frail will they live with you?

  14. Would you pay for housing or an aide for an aging parent?

  15. If an incident like COVID was hitting seniors homes would you bring a family member to isolate with you to hopefully protect them?

  16. Are you willing to drive your aged in laws to appointments and take them shopping?

  1. Would you be willing to do personal care for an aged relative like changing bandages or bathing?

  2. Would you keep doing what you were to help if it became harmful to your family?

  3. Would any of these situations extend to friends? If so how close of friend?

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